I like lists so I search for them on the internet. This woman has put together a list of 20 things you can do to spice up your sex life. I would like to go over some of them and why I think they are not so good.  1. Pretend you just met him"When our sex life started to slow down, I started thinking Read more [...]

I admit that I am weird and I think about weird shit. When I can't sleep at night I don't think about my future or being rich or what I'm gonna do the next day, I think about strange stuff that normal people probably don't consider. Last night I couldn't sleep and I started thinking about Read more [...]

It has been a fun and interesting day since the last post and I have learned alot from all of the readers who responded ( thank you all by the way, even you Sarah, but I'll get to that later  ). I realized I was looking at that cheesy list from the perspective of someone who has been with the Read more [...]

There is a website that lists 50 ways for a man to be romantic. I won't say the website because it doesn't matter but I have problems with the list. I won't go through all 50 but I want to list the ones I think are the worst.  1. Write "I love you" in the steam on the bathroom mirror after she takes Read more [...]

One of the things that interests me is marriage and relationships. It is one of the reasons I started this blog. But since I have been reading romance novels I have become totally confused. Everything I read in the news about men and women talks about how the dating scene has changed. Women don't want Read more [...]

I consider myself somewhat of an expert on girls, I'm married to one, my mom was one, I have three daughters that are allegedly mine and both of my neighbors are girls. So when I saw Jessica Scott post this on twitter yesterday I thought I would comment. In case you don't want to read Read more [...]

I have discovered the ultimate aphrodisiac. You know what it is? Housework, no shit, housework. I have blogged before about what a lousy husband I am and that I was trying to change. So the other night I thought I would clean up after dinner. Nothing big, I just loaded the dishwasher and cleaned Read more [...]

I received an e-mail from Ruthie Knox today asking what I thought was a really good question. She was explaining to me that writers will write a heroine as a stand-in for the reader so the reader can easily fall into the heroines head and become her for the purpose of the fantasy. And since most Read more [...]

When I wrote last night's blog about why women like vampires I didn't expect to open a coffin of worms ( get it, coffin, ok that's lame, sorry, it's hard to be funny all the time ). Holy shit! You ladies are crazy for these blood sucking guys. So after all of the comments and reader pressure I am going Read more [...]

I don't get the whole women and vampire thing. There is a whole bunch of romance books dedicated to the topic of women and the vampires they love. I know Ann Rice wrote about it plus there was the whole Twilight thing. I don't understand the attraction. Don't women realize these vampires want Read more [...]